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Friday, February 11, 2005
The One With the Role Definition 

Interestingly after being a mother, the role definition or the specification of being myself as whomever I am supposed to be is being questioned or rather revised.

And interestingly, someone said something rather intriguing...or made me think twice about roles and the definition...

for starters..

for all the men, what is your definition of a wife?

for all the women, what is your definition of being a wife?

"memberi nafkah zahir dan batin" has a lot to it. It's not just money or food or a roof above your head. Or emotions. Or even the intimate physical bit. For both men and women actually. How would you define it actually...especially in this modern world...where man and woman work side-by-side to achieve the so-called 'ideal' life or world that we lived in.

A very important woman, a career woman, a mother of 4 kids, a wife of a successful man, a daughter of a tycoon, the heir of an empire said and I quote " To be a very successful career woman, you have to have your own bini. For example, someone who opens the door for you after your business trip, and tells you what the kids are and had done bla bla bla...Someone who manages your domestic chores...iron your clothes etc"

I have been thinking about this. And still thinking about it....

The world has changed. Definitely. The roles? Significantly, there needs to be an equilibirium somewhere between the definition of a man and a woman. But what is it? A woman no longer just sits around or wait to be impregnant. And 'vice versa'. Does the role definition change at all in the first place?

What's the equation?





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