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Thursday, March 31, 2005
The One With The Bus 

Whenever there's a tragic incident involving a bus like this one,the unfortunate passengers will say something like this.. ‘Saya lihat bas dipandu laju’...

Heck.. It is a known fact for god sake.. I guess 99.9% express buses are driven above speed limit (which is 90km/h) on highways.. some might even reach 140km/h..

What would you say if all express bus driver obey the rule and especially when you are on the bus.. I'm pretty sure something like 'Bodoh punya driver bas, bawak slow nak mampus' / 'stupid driver, drive too goddamn slow..' will come up..

Natural instinct of human beings that is, 'Never satisfied..'

courtesy of thestar.com.my

Monday, March 28, 2005
The One With the Centenary Celebration Day 

Seratus tahun telah berlalu,
Tersergam gagah, Malay College yang satu,
Wawasan murni Raja-raja Melayu,
Agar negara makmur dan maju.

Empat Raja, empat negeri,
Di Kuala Kangsar, mencemar Duli,
Berbincanglah Tuanku, pendapat diberi,
Agar Melayu memerintah sendiri.

Sultan Ahmad, Raja di Pahang,
Rombongan gajah dan hulubalang,
Merentas hutan dan gunung ganang,
Di Kuala Kangsar, sedia berbincang.

courtesy of modaq
43 of Class 96 & 2 of Class 2021

Thursday, March 24, 2005
The One With Junior 

Have u ever watch the movie Junior? Starring Governator Arnold, Danny Devito and Emma Thompson. I barely remember the exact storyline but basically it was about Arnold carrying a baby.. synopsis below is taken from rottentomatoes.com :

Upon losing their grant to develop a fertility potion, two male scientists steal an embryo in an attempt to prove their theories correct. The embryo, fertilized, is implanted in the abdomen of Dr. Hesse, who intends to abort it after the first trimester. Instead, the somber Dr. Alexander Hesse starts developing an array of new emotions and insists on carrying the baby to full term. To aid the two doctors in their research, although she does not know what they are really up to, Dr. Diana Reddin helps the two men gain access to the laboratory. In the process, Hess and Reddin fall in love, and Hesse confesses that he is pregnant and with her child. After some initial protest she becomes very supportive. Mayhem follows when Hesse is forced to hide out in a maternity clinic disguised as a woman while being pursued by his former boss.
It was a pretty unrealistic (yet funny) movie.. until...

A friend of mine, Hafiz aka Malek (sounds familiar?? Yup, the one who ended up in the losing side in Explorace : Vietnam) pasted a link to me.. check this out.. http://www.malepregnancy.com/ and I went berzerkly => ..

OMG??!! How this Lee Ming-Wei did it?? against the nature isn't it? (I dont have enuff free time to browse thru this website though..)

It was like almost a year ago when we learnt that Shariza was pregnant.. It wasn't easy.. (errrr I meant the pregnancy thingy.. not the pre-pregnancy process..) Although without morning/evening sickness, she wasnt craving for single-horned-white-deer venison, no 30 hours of labour pain.. but I tell you it wasn't easy.. every time she try to get up from the bed, or wake up in the middle of the nite due to leg cramp.. i felt like.. oh my god.. plz.. no more pain for her.. If given a choice to switch place, I definitely will quit before it is even started..

It needs courage, patient and determination which men dont have.. I strongly believe no man can handle it.. Therefore naturally, the 9-months contract job is given to women.. :D

Since Lee Ming-Wei already pioneered it and taken the First Pregnant Man title, any takers for the Malaysian First Pregnant Man? come on.. Malaysia Boleh!! (heck.. if u crazy enuff la..)

ps: Thank-you a zillion very much my dearie for carrying Faeq for 9 months ++.. will be quite some time for the next one.. *wink*

Wednesday, March 23, 2005
The One With MBA 

married but available....

do u know people who has MBA...
in most cases...guys la.

it is funny to know that being married is no longer a sacred union of two souls. To some that is.

A friend of mine...who has a friend...is in love with his wife, yet he still seeks out for other companionship outside the house. Newly married...just over a year or so. Has a baby. No problems with his wife. Wife is working. What else? I just cant, for the life of me, understand this guy. If a friendship is what he is looking for, tht I understand. But companionship, I am so sorry to say that I just dont get it. Being a wife myself, I wouldnt want other girls to be lovey dovey with my husband. Or to switch off his handphone whenever I call.

I remembered a phrase from this song..but couldnt remember the title of the song...
"Mother why didnt you tell me? That it hurts so.."

My mother has always reminded me to be alert that...air surut tak semestinya tiada buaya...

but marriage cant work without trust. Would checking the call register everyday be sufficient in you knowing your other self? Or being too strict and not trusting trigger the urge to prove that "Hey I can do it!"...

Well...hey...if you can do it....I could too...

That's what everyone should think of. That no one is out of the exception. Be it male or female.

But...come on...have faith in love. Have faith with each other. Dont do stupid stuffs that you might regret. Have faith in Him. Marriage too has its cycles. Just dont make it 1 cycle for your entire life. Make it a few cycles....everyday..everymonth..every year. Dont take things for granted. Do that spontaneous gesture. Make him/her laugh. And most of all...love each other.

If you know of someone who fits the description, please discourage them. You might save someone's relationship/family.

Monday, March 21, 2005
The One With the Stinky 

Have you ever encountered a 'stinky'? Stinky socks..stinky armpits...stinky stinky stinky...

I have. Am now. Hey you, if you are reading now, go check your stinky...

*Sitting under a guy with stinky armpits in the LRT for the 30minutes ride.
*Sitting near someone who open his/her shoes..exposing the gorgeous smelly socks for the whole 9-5 office hours.
*In the lift for 10minutes, with someone farting after his/her huge lunch of durian/petai/beans etc

Stinky Stinky Stinky!!!!

I could faint here!

Friday, March 18, 2005
The One With One Year Anniversary 

Oh.. check this out.. Exactly a year back, this blog was born with two posts.. this and this..

Waaa.. its been a year?? Time do fly..

ps: I'm not as free as last year.. Sha's changing job.. hope this blog will keep staying alive..

The One With the Supporting Factors 

I once had this theory...but later discard it. But then..tell me what you think of it.

Does having a family adds on to your ambition to strive in career? For man la kan. Like if you already have a fiance in hand, you suddenly feel the need to go forward even faster. It would probably be becoz u nid the cash soon. But seriously, is there a difference for married men and single men? If you are single, you can take things easier. Risk it all kind-of-thing. Being married enforces you get a better and stabil job. Is it?

I know it is more of the individuality kind of thing. But given an option now, to which you are, if you are married, would it make a difference? Or vice versa?

Wednesday, March 16, 2005
The One With Anonymity 

People say blogging is a way to express stuff, it makes you light-headed. That is if you have something stuffed deep in your heart.

It will be this blog's 1st anniversary soon. We started blogging to just type stuffs which we had opinions or views of. Practically expressing views actually. General views. View of the current news etc. But hardly...matters of the heart.

So, I have thoughts of creating my own blog (or perhaps I have done so), with an anonymous ID...so that I can just blurt everything out without feeling anything. Oh no, I shall not tell you my dear. And no I shall not tell you too my friends. I guess I would want people to just stumble across it and not be judged about anything. But it would be difficult to maintain wouldnt it. Two blogs....this blog alone requires an enormous huge deep thinking. Hahahhaaa...

Like the Datin Diaries....though she has only a few posts, it seems to be quite an interesting blog. The anonymity enables her to read people's opinions. Be it positive or negative.

All I know is that, I have something tht needs to be out. It definitely shouldnt be out from my mouth. Oh I do hope it can do so if I 'fart'. Hahahaaa...so unfortunate that it cant. Oh well, it shall be in for as long as I can handle it I guess.

Perhaps I should start the new blog. It would be some kind of therapy for me, definitely HEALTHY.

Tell me....how else do you express stuff? Writings? Journals? Go shoot stars somewhere?

Tuesday, March 15, 2005
The One With Dating and Courting 

I remembered years back...something about dating and courting...something about why married men goes for younger girls...or married men going out with other girls...and it is about the DATING and COURTING bit. They want to thrill of chasing someone...trying to impress someone...and the acknowledgement of achieving such 'achievements'...

On contratry, I have a friend who is sooo tired of this dating and courting methodology. And just wants to get married. To settle down.

Probably just tired of the ordeal. The chasing. The getting know. The headaches and heartaches. Merajuk sini, merajuk sana. The cash flow too perhaps. (What I perceive la kan...but if you really want someone, you should just go all out for her/him kan..???)

Oh well...I am waiting for my bowling date with my husband in ALamanda some time this week.


The One With Past, Future and Present 

Or is it Past, Present and Future???

A friend of mine...who has been in a relationship with this guy (whom she loves a great deal) for almost 6 years or so. The thing is...this guy seems to have a HUGE ego and doesnt really make her feel as special as before. Or so it seems. Perhaps I perceived it differently.

The important thing is (as mentioned by my dearie husband, a question to all unmarried people who has been in a long relationship):
When you say you love somebody, is it because of the past or the future?

Do you hold on to the past? Or would you rather think of the future?

At what age should you be in your exact path already? When should you make the decision?

My dear friend (if you are reading this), I hope you are having fun now in the present, coz you deserve it. When you are ready, make a decision. We are not getting younger and time wouldnt wait for us. Open up and let others know you too, this interesting gorgeous girl. InsyaAllah kalo ada jodoh, takkan ke mana.

Live life to the fullest!

Thursday, March 10, 2005
The One With the Pressure Level 

How's your pressure level lately?

The pictures are non-animated pictures. They are related to your pressure level. If you see the objects move, then that means you have pressure currently. The speed of the movements is the level of yourpressure. The faster the objects are moving, the higher pressure youhave. Most chidren and old men only could see the pictures as static. If the objects move slowly so it could mean that your pressure level is low at the moment.

So test your pressure regularly using these objects! Sometimes, it's good to have an appropriate amount of pressure to push us to do better, but too much pressure could cause us disadvantages. So try to relax and cool yourself down when you know you have too much pressure inside!

The One With All About Women 

In conjunction with the recent Woman's Day:

There are 3 billion women who don't look like super models and only eight who do.

Did you know Marilyn Monroe wore a size 14?

If Barbie was a real woman, she'd have to walk on all FOURS due to her proportions!

The average woman weighs 144 pounds, and wears between a size 12-14.
One out of every 4 college-aged women has an eating disorder.

The Models in the magazines are AIRBRUSHED!!! - NOT Perfect!!

A psychological study in 1995 found that 3 minutes spent looking at a Fashion Magazine caused 70% of women to feel depressed, guilty and SHAMEFUL!

Models 20 years ago weighed 8% Less than the average Woman.
Today they weigh 23% less......

~~ Beauty of a Woman ~~
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears,
The figure she carries, or the way she combs her hair.
The beauty of a woman must be seen from her eyes,
Because that is the doorway to her heart,
The place where love resides.
The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mole,
But true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul.
It is the caring that she lovingly gives,
The passion that she shows.
The beauty of a woman
With time, only grows..

An English professor wrote the words: "WOMAN WITHOUT HER MAN IS NOTHING" on the blackboard, and directed the students to punctuate it correctly.
The men wrote: "Woman, WITHOUT HER MAN, is nothing."
The women wrote: "WOMAN!! WITHOUT HER, man is nothing!"

The Images of Mother

4 YEARS OF AGE = My Mommy can do anything!
8 YEARS OF AGE = My Mom knows a lot! A whole lot!
12 YEARS OF AGE = My Mother doesn't really know quite everything.
14 YEARS OF AGE = Naturally, Mother doesn't know that, either!
16 YEARS OF AGE = Mother? She's hopelessly old-fashioned.
18 YEARS OF AGE = That old woman? She's way out of date!
25 YEARS OF AGE = Well, she might know a little bit about it.
35 YEARS OF AGE = Before we decide, let's get Mom's opinion.
45 YEARS OF AGE = Wonder what Mom would have thought about it?
65 YEARS OF GE = Wish I could talk it over with Mom. . .

To all the gorgeous beautiful women...

Wednesday, March 09, 2005
The One With Determination 

1. Bahasa Melayu
2. Bahasa Inggeris
3. Sejarah
4. Matematik Moden
5. Biologi
6. Kimia
7. Fizik
8. Ekonomi Asas
9. Perdagangan
10. Prinsip Akaun
11. Sains Asas
12. Pendidikan Seni
13. Tasawur Islam
14. Kesusasteraan Melayu
15. Bahasa Inggeris untuk Sains dan Teknologi,
16. Pendidikan Islam
17. Matematik Tambahan
18. English 1119

Fuih! 18A1s.. Hip hip hooray for Nur Amalina ... Read more...

*Daughter of a teacher and an engineer
*from Sek Men Ulu Tiram Johor Bahru Johor
*Inspires study in University Oxford
*Tokoh Nilam 2004
*Juara Pertandingan Pidato Kelab Pelaburan Bijak Permodalan Nasional Berhad
*Currently studying French, Italian and German language
*Was a student exchange for Italy

I would like to think that to be able to this...it would need a brainy brain...yet even if you are a genius...but do not feel the need to do so aka no determination...thus you would not be able to do so!

The One With Male Etiquette 

Something I received in the mail box...

The Top Three Issues in Daily Life

The art of etiquette really comes down to being thoughtful of the other people you encounter in your everyday life. We all tend to associate "proper behavior" with formal social events-but true etiquette involves behaving with respect and consideration for others in everything that you do, from attending a high-society soiree to simply hanging out around the house.

In fact, daily life is where men tend to run into more trouble than anywhere else. When the 750 women who responded to our recent Post Survey came to the question "What are the most annoying things men do in their daily lives?" we got quite an earful.

Here's a summary of the three main areas that our female respondents identified as their top hot-button issues when it comes to men and their everyday behavior:

* Manners Matter *

Opening doors. Putting down the toilet seat. Being on time. Not spitting. Taking off your hat indoors. Saying "Please" and "Thank you." Trying to be discreet and quiet when blowing your nose. These and other niceties may seem trivial to many men, but here's the scoop: it all matters. When you don't use the manners that people have come to expect -- failing to open the door for a woman, for instance -- it's not simply a sign that you're clueless; it shows a lack of consideration. That's what bothers women about men who don't have manners.

This brings us back to the essential guiding principle of this book: Good manners are not a matter of simply "following the rules." What's important is the reason underlying the desired behavior. Etiquette is about being considerate and honest with others. Manners matter, because manners are really about showing respect for another person. We hold the door for a woman not because there's a rule that says we should, but because it is an act of kindness and a way to make the woman you're with feel special. When you act in this spirit, she will know it and appreciate you for it. If you hold the door just because "that's the rule," she'll see right through you.

* Helping Out Matters -- A Lot *

Here's a simple technique for driving a woman nuts: take the dishes to the sink -- and then just leave them there. As one of our female respondents put it, "If you can carry them to the sink, why can't you take the time to put them in the dishwasher???"

According to the Post Survey, when it comes to helping out around the house, the modern male still has a long way to go. Those men who do help out at home scored higher in the category of "pleasing things that men do in their daily lives" than anything else, and by a wide margin. These men are role models for us all: they do the dishes, they do chores -- without being asked. They do the "manly" jobs like washing the car, mowing the lawn, taking out the garbage -- but they also help clean the house and do the laundry, and they don't leave a mess for someone else to pick up later. They clean up the counter and put away the fixings before they eat the sandwich they just made. They buy flowers "just because," or call her at work just to ask how she's doing. They give her compliments, unprompted. They hold hands. These guys are really good.

Why do women appreciate it so much? As our survey revealed, women perceive helping out as more than simply a matter of men doing their "assigned" chores or showing a little kindness. It's a matter of voluntarily taking responsibility and sharing the load.

* Being Inconsiderate and Being Disrespectful Go Hand in Hand *

Staring at other women. Talking down to women. Ignoring their opinions. Interrupting. Not introducing them. Simply ignoring them altogether. Walking several steps ahead of her rather than beside her. The Post Survey found that women don't simply view these behaviors as being rude or inconsiderate -- to women, they represent a fundamental lack of personal respect.

To be fair, most men's "inconsiderate" or "disrespectful" behavior is not intentional. Men frequently get lost in their thoughts and go to far-off places in their minds without even realizing the journey has started, or considering the consequences. That's when they get into trouble.

Consider the issue of looking at another attractive woman who happens to cross your path. I do this unconsciously, I admit. But when my eyes stop looking at my wife's, and my attention shifts away just as she is making an important point, she views this as a case of my not being attentive to her. And she's right -- my attention has wandered. Whenever a man "switches off" his thinking or wanders off on a mind journey, he runs the risk of looking inconsiderate and, by extension, disrespectful.

On a personal note, it scares me when I see what I've just written because I see some of myself in this description, and unfortunately it's not the good part. How long has it been since I made the bed in the morning? Why didn't I do those dishes from last night's dinner that were piled in the sink? After all, she made dinner. The least I could have done was clean up afterward. And I can't remember the last time I bought my wife flowers. Instead, I've been heard at the supermarket bemoaning the fact that she's picking out flowers and buying them for herself. Talk about clueless!

Any comments? Guys? Gals?

Monday, March 07, 2005
The One With the New SATC 

New Sex and The City?
How about Sex and The Suburbs?
Wisteria Lane perhaps...

What am I talking about? DESPERATE HOUSEWIVES....

Yup, instead of having 4 single gals in the city, we have 5 WIVES in Wisteria Lane...

A primetime soap with a truly contemporary take on "happily every after," this new hour- long drama takes a darkly comedic look at suburbia, where the secret lives of housewives aren't always what they seem.

Looking down on her friends and family isn't a way of life for Mary Alice Young (Brenda Strong) … it's a way of death. One day, in her perfect house, in the loveliest of suburbs, Mary Alice ended it all. Now she's taking us into the lives of her family, friends and neighbors, commenting from her elevated P.O.V.

Her small circle of girlfriends are wondering why one of their own would do something so rash… and so messy. There's Susan Mayer (Teri Hatcher), the divorcee and single mom who will go to extraordinary lengths for love; Lynette Scavo (Felicity Huffman), the ex-career woman who traded the boardroom for boredom, mixed with moments of sheer panic as the mother of four unmanageable kids; Bree Van De Kamp (Marcia Cross), the Martha Stewart on steroids, whose family is about to mutiny; and Gabrielle Solis, the ex-model with everything she's every wanted – a rich husband, a big house – so what is she doing with John, the 17-year-old gardener (Jesse Metcalfe)? And there are her neighbors, including serial divorcee Edie Britt (Nicollette Sheridan), whose romantic conquests have everyone buzzing.

Read more..

Honey, this is one of our MUST HAVE DVD Collection (I dont think we'll get it here on Astro, if we do, it will probably be months and years)..

Cant wait to watch it.

Friday, March 04, 2005
The One With Being White 

What is it about white?

I remembered talking to yanz a few week's back. She commented on our new background color; about how 'suci' (pure) it looked...the innocence... and I laughed..thinking about how our blogtitle (original meaning) didnt really coincide with it. But that's a different story...

The thing is...what is it really about white?

Is it about having a clean slate? Even in life...you only get a clean slate when you were born...or probably till the time you were no longer a baby (after you moved on from Baby Genius). *If you are familiar with the movie, a baby is born genius until the age of two or so when they move to a transition...learning to talk and speak the same language with the adults.

Every day, you are given a new sheet, it would probably be white, but it wouldnt be pure white. It would probably have some spots of red or orange, a few lines of blue, drops of green, and you would probably add on more colours to that sheet. It couldnt be pure white, because yesterday has some meaning for today and tomorrow. And no matter how we try to repaint things, yesterday makes who we are today. All the spots and lines; quirks of life...makes who we are today and tomorrow. We grew stronger from yesterday's fall. We are a different person today than yesterday, without realising it.

But the thing is, you must always remember that you cant get a new clean white slate. You cant change yesterday. You cant take back your words. You cant undo your actions. You cant erase that memory of yesterday. You cant erase that hurt. That sorrow. That laughter. That tear. That smile. That sunshine. It has happened. You cant regret it.

But you can add a different paint on it. Give it more vibe. Give it more air.

Live your life to the fullest.

*I still love white, mainly becoz it's meaning.
*We changed our blog theme to faeq's colour.

Thursday, March 03, 2005
The One With SEXY 

What is SEXY to you?

A naked woman/man?

Or is it the bod? Shape? Specific physique? Eyes?
Or someone wearing something that is see thru....transparent? Clothes perhaps...

Or is it about the body language...
Or the sound of one's voice?

Or is it something mysterious...???

What do you think of this?

Manhunt Winner, Jon
Milla Jovovich in Cannes (1997)

by Hot Chocolate

I believe in miracles
Where you from (You sexy thing)
I believe in miracles
Since you came along (You sexy thing)

Miracles right before my eyes
You sexy thing got me hypnotised
Don't stop whatya' doing
Whatya' doing to me
My angel from above lying next to me
How didya' know that I'd be the one
Been a long time coming only just begun
Doing all the things that makes my heart sing
Keep doing what you're doing you sexy thing

How didya' know I needed you so badly
How didya' know I gave my heart gladly
Yesterday I was one of a lonely people
Now you're lying next to me
Making love to me

I believe in miracles
Where you from (You sexy thing, You sexy thing)
I believe in miracles
Since you came along (You sexy thing)

Only yesterday I was on my own
Just another day later my mind was blown
You sexy thing come into my life
Forever and a day it feels so right
How didya' know that I'd be the one
Been a long time coming only just begun
Doing all the things that makes my heart sing
Keep doing what you're doing you sexy thing

How didya' know I needed you so badly
How didya' know I gave my heart gladly
Yesterday I was one of a lonely people
Now you're lying next to me
Making love to me

I believe in miracles
Where you from (You sexy thing, You sexy thing)
I believe in miracles
Since you came along (You sexy thing)

Kiss me baby (You sexy thing, You sexy thing)
Touch me baby (You sexy thing, You sexy thing)
Kiss me baby (You sexy thing, You sexy thing)
Touch me baby (You sexy thing, You sexy thing)
Kiss me baby (You sexy thing, You sexy thing)
Touch me baby (You sexy thing, You sexy thing)
Kiss me baby (You sexy thing, You sexy thing)
Touch me baby (You sexy thing, You sexy thing)

You sexy thing

The One With Malaysian Time 

Working at client office exposed me with a new kind of environment.. Especially with many ex-pats around you..

So today, as I was inside the building elevator, one Mat Saleh guy walking into the elevator, and there was a lady, (his colleague I pressumed), who asked him, "Aren't you late for (whatever) meeting?".

He simply answered, "Practically I'm late by 9 minutes, but according to Malaysian time, I'm still early by 2 minutes.. so nevermind.. (with a cynical smile)".. ouchhh..

And frankly, that wasn't the first time I hear those kind of things.. hehe..

Wednesday, March 02, 2005
The One With The Month of Resignation 

Heh.. I couldnt help it on not writing this.. since at least, yup at least 7 people that I know, from my own wife (congrats honey, i know u've been anxiously waiting for this moment), colleagues, old friends, wife's colleagues, friend's latest-flame, will be resigning effective this month.. heh.. what about it? Just a co-incidence or what?

Do you happen to know anybody who is resigning also?

The One With the Value 

Have you ever valued yourself? How much are you worth? Okay okay...we are talking about career track here.

So how much do you value? Place yourself in the job market, full of kiasu people...high achieving yuppies etc...how much do you cost?

How do you actually value yourself? Is it the quantity of skills that you have? Is it the quality of your skills? Or simply...YOU?!!!

When I was getting ready for my interview, I kept asking Zen, "How much should I ask for?" How much...
is this too high? is this too low? for the market? for myself?? (for myself...i think it will always be.."i need moreeee..." <-- hey that's a motivation okay?!!!)

A colleague of mine taught us about getting a higher value for yourself...
1. Always get more than 10% of your current pay.
2. Tell your new employer that your current is about to promote you and give you a raise soon (similar to counter offer)
3. Include your allowances and what-not in your current salary (in your resume)

Pretty interesting...

Care to try?

The One With the Fresh Air 

I went for an interview last Monday, in which I was offered the job right on the spot.

I didnt accept it straightaway (thinking tht I might look very desperate), but when I was driving back home, I felt that the air could've been better. I was actually breathing fresh air, all this while, it was hazy!!!

Looking forward to the 'green' environment, the new scents and what-not.
Looking forward to have a huge load on my table.
Looking forward to carry a bigger responsibility.

The air couldn't have been better. It felt good. I was feeling good about myself. I could see the clear sky. How the horizon is wide.

No more suffocating.
No more inhaling the huge dosage of tar.
No more hazy and fuzy.

Everything is clear. I am moving forward. I am ready for the next task.

And I keep asking myself..will I be able to ace it in this new place? All I could think of is how good it is to breathe the fresh air. And how clear the sky is.

Clear Sky With Fresh Air

The One With the Private Getaway 

Ever wanted to just bask under the sun on the beach of your own island?!!!!

Ever wanted to just hide somewhere on Earth...away from everyone else...on your own private island?!!!

No traffic jams...
No phone calls...
No buzzing noise...
No neighbours fighting...
No paparazzi peeping...

Why not?!!! It's only US$15 million (

Fiji Island & Mel Gibson

"...the only way to maintain a moderate sum of happiness in this life, is not to worry about the future or regret the past too much."
--Mel Gibson

He will probably find some happiness on his private island somewhere in Fiji